Marriage
First of all, Congratulations! We share your excitement and hope for the future. As you prepare to enter into a permanent commitment to one another, the Church journeys along with you, offering encouragement and support. The purpose of the Marriage Preparation is to help you continue to work toward realizing your dreams and to assist you in celebrating your commitment in the sacrament of marriage. It is also meant to welcome you into the community of St. Julie as a newly married couple.
All marriages at St. Julie Billiart Parish must be scheduled through the pastor or deacons at least 6 months prior to the anticipated date. Call the parish office at 513-863-1040. If you are not a member of St. Julie Billiart Parish please consult our policy on getting married at St. Julie.
Because the number of weddings the parish staff can accommodate
is limited, priority is given to active members of St. Julie
Billiart Parish and their children. Secondly, the Church’s
goal, understandably, is less about the ceremony and its
externals and more about meaning of the sacrament in a couple’s
on-going faith life. Finally, the Catholic Church asks that
a couple prepare for marriage and that a spiritual, personal,
and canonical assessment of their readiness be done.
Given
the above, this is our policy for scheduling the sacrament
of matrimony.
1. If the bride or groom or one of their parents is an active
member of the parish or lives within the boundaries of the
parish, a date can be scheduled after the pre-nuptial interviews
are underway.
2. If neither bride nor groom has an established relationship
with the parish (by family or geography) and choose to become
members of the parish, the pre-nuptial process can begin
after being active members of the parish for at least six
months. (Active members are those who register at St. Julie
Billiart Parish and attend Mass every Sunday here.)
3. If neither bride nor groom has an established relationship
with the parish (by family or geography) but is active at
another parish, it is possible for a priest or deacon from
that parish to come to St. Julie for the wedding. That minister
is responsible for all marriage preparation. However, to
give priority to parish members, a date cannot be confirmed
until six months prior.
4. If neither bride nor groom has an established relationship
with the parish (by family or geography) but is active at
another parish some distance from the Hamilton area and
want to marry here because they have family in the area
who are not practicing Catholics, exceptions can sometimes
be made.
5. In the case of #3 or 4 at the time a date is reserved
a non-refundable deposit of $500 is required.
You will find our booklet “Getting Married at St. Julie Billiart” helpful.